I broke off with my bf of 9 years because he went to get a tattoo

Think he can nw add 7 more fishes - 9 more lucky rite?

dreamzzlandz wrote:any small symbols ( less than 50 cent coin size) are acceptable, but I cannot swallow down facing 2 super stupid big fishes for the rest of my life.

Just a direct question, is there still love between you and him?
If yes, do consider
If no, let move on

tiny, actually it is really all about the tattoo, the strongwill that he insisted on getting the tattoo. he is happy with the 2 so called lucky ( but to me totally disgusting and stupid) fishes.. the 2 fishes will accompany him for his rest of his life. He can even talk to them.

I dont need to have any tattoo on my body to gain any confidence or to boost my self-esteem. I am a confident and practical person.

Neither do I waste my money to torture my body nor ruin my own body with any stupid tattoo.

Fishes????


I agree with Tiny.....
Eye grow in front for u to look ahead... move on....
Start afresh.....
REBORN again!!!!

cheers

dav2011, yes there is love ..or else I wouldnt cry before I go to bed the past few nights. but its hard for me to take the fishes on his back.

See how disgusting the fish on the back is.. and I am going to live with it for the rest of my life.

Maybe if he agreed to paste a super big plaster over his 2 fishes everytime he is with me. But the question is he wont, because he is so proud of the fishes. Just a total disgrace! and i guess next time his children will follow his suit.

If love's strong enough, what's the deal with the physical self.

dreamzzlandz wrote:tiny, actually it is really all about the tattoo, the strongwill that he insisted on getting the tattoo. he is happy with the 2 so called lucky ( but to me totally disgusting and stupid) fishes.. the 2 fishes will accompany him for his rest of his life. He can even talk to them.

I dont need to have any tattoo on my body to gain any confidence or to boost my self-esteem. I am a confident and practical person.

Neither do I waste my money to torture my body nor ruin my own body with any stupid tattoo.

He talks to them? OK then I think he is a few marbles short of a full bag.

Hmm personally I don't understand the need for body markings. My life journey has already given my body enough trail rashes and scars..I don't see the need to pay for more..haha

But I have seen some people with really nice tattoos, it's just how you carry them once you own them.

purple wrote:If love's strong enough, what's the deal with the physical self.

if the scars are caused by accidents or cuts, I am definitely ok with it, but I wouldnt accept the fact that he has to waste money to pay others to ruin his clean back.. it is not by accident, he pay to get it done..

There are so many things I had wanted to get, but I did not .. but he just wasted his money so lavishly on those stupid 2 fishes. It is not as though he has got tons of money to spare. you see my point.

dreamzzlandz wrote:

purple wrote:If love's strong enough, what's the deal with the physical self.

if the scars are caused by accidents or cuts, I am definitely ok with it, but I wouldnt accept the fact that he has to waste money to pay others to ruin his clean back.. it is not by accident, he pay to get it done..

There are so many things I had wanted to get, but I did not .. but he just wasted his money so lavishly on those stupid 2 fishes. It is not as though he has got tons of money to spare. you see my point.

Totally!

the tattoo same price as 2-way angel eyes?

his stupid tattoo cost around $600.

and to think I even went to complaint about the $300 auto folding mirror to kia management ( because we were not given free while others got it free)...

Well, I will just tell the management to drop the subject, $300 for auto folding mirror is already very cheap than paying twice the amount to ruin his body.

Why should I care???

All these years why should I have help him save money, scrimp on so many things... and he just waste the money on this nonsense thing! which got absolutely no meaning at all.

let me present.. the truly CFO - Ms dreamzzlandz ^^

cheer up.. let the past bygone.. future is shinning bright ahead waiting for you..

oh... even more ex than the LED tail lamps...

Terrier.. Ya, I think I am a good CFO.

Anyway, with $600, can even buy a few items for the new forte, just dont understand why he would waste the money on a stupid tattoo..

Maybe with $600, he can buy a ring and get a girl to marry him ... with $600, can buy a small branded bag to make a girl happy, well there are quite a number of things $600 can do to bring much happiness than misery and pain.

and the last thing on mind is to use $600 to ruin one's body.

dreamy.. i can feel that.. u still feel for him but dunno how to accept it.. if not how come u will know abt the $600 and from that day till now.. still grumbling =).. hehe cool it.. give yourself more time to think..

Terrier wrote:let me present.. the truly CFO - Ms dreamzzlandz ^^

cheer up.. let the past bygone.. future is shinning bright ahead waiting for you..

Shine in me

"wai hor weng yu fong bak dai..." - sammi cheng

dreamzzlandz wrote:Terrier.. Ya, I think I am a good CFO.

Anyway, with $600, can even buy a few items for the new forte, just dont understand why he would waste the money on a stupid tattoo..

Maybe with $600, he can buy a ring and get a girl to marry him ... with $600, can buy a small branded bag to make a girl happy, well there are quite a number of things $600 can do to bring much happiness than misery and pain.

and the last thing on mind is to use $600 to ruin one's body.

That leads me to one question, why he haven't proposed yet??? 9years leh!

because I told him I dont want to get married so early and that both of us are still young, and that maybe 5 years later than get married.

( He is lucky, for other girls would have pester him to get married, instead me drag the topic of marriage. I know I have girlf friends who would pester their boyfriends to marry them..but hor, not for me! I have many girl friends who are still single.In fact 95% are still single so I see no point in getting married at an early age)

All his best friends were already married, in fact out of 6 of them, 3 already married with kids.. its my thinking, I do not wish to get married at such a young age and be tied down by commitments.

Plus we got no money... you see no money he still can anyhow spent on getting a silly tattoo.


Anyway, he also wont propose to me, because he sure know I definitely reject him.. but then if he were able to move me to tears with a romantic proposal, I would have say "yes" but he wont do that because he wont even propose in the first place.. but at times, he would ask me to go apply flat..

and of course, I wouldnt agreed to go apply flat..if a woman agreed to go apply flat with you, which mean she agreed to marry you without you having to propose to her... can save the trouble and money and effort to get a ring on the man's side.. I wouldnt be so stupid to agree to apply for flat, without a proper proposal.

Apply flat is usually about 3-5years before you take keys. Unless you opt for open market. Sad to say, in SG....apply flats usually comes before proposal due to the long waiting period.

But ok lah, now u r single again....u can start afresh.

I can now imagine the next story line for a new Korean drama....
나는 나의 소년 친구와 그는 귀영나팔이 있기 때문에 그만두었다

Thanks all..

yes, I am single and I am going to be strong. I wont let 2 stupid fishes to bring me down.

** to end my story, I just wrote a complaint to No.2 haji Lane telling them that they made very ugly tattoo that caused me to lose my 9 relationship. ( I know they wont care my email, but I feel better to tell them the fact that their tattoo had caused.)

ano57 wrote:


Fishes????


I agree with Tiny.....
Eye grow in front for u to look ahead... move on....
Start afresh.....
REBORN again!!!!

cheers

WOO!! nice tattoo artwork.. wahh.. this person muz be biting the towel until seow leh..

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